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 | February 19, 2012 | 
 
“GOING HOME”
  - . . . That’s what Whitney Houston’s family meant in  calling the service a “home going,” which took place at the New  Hope Baptist Church in Newark, N. J., on Saturday. 
- . . . Their daughter was “going  home to heaven to be with God."
- . . . The term connotes a  more positive and upbeat event instead of calling it a ‘funeral. ’
- . . . Still, for many  peopleit was a ‘homecoming’ of sorts,  with friends and family returning to the hometown where Houston was born. 
- . . . The service was POSITIVE:No one made much of the troubles she’s had in recent years. 
- . . . UPBEAT: The sermons, the  speakers, the singing, the remembrances.  No dirgy affair. 
- . . . INSPIRING.  The love in the  room.
- . . . But still a sad day  when you think about what happened to the just 48-year-old singing star.  
- . . . SURPRISING PREMONITION. Cissy  Houston, Whitney’s mother, wrote  a letter for the ceremony program and in it said, “I never told you that when  you were born, The Holy Spirit told me that you would not be with me long,”  reported the Associated Press.  “And I  thank God for the beautiful flower  he allowed me to raise and cherish for 48 years."
- . . . WONDERING. What made Cissy believe that her daughter might come to a premature end?
- . . . “Rest, my baby girl, in peace,” the letter read and was  signed, “mommie."
- . . . BACKGROUND.  Mom Houston is a soul and gospel  singer in her own right with an impressive background which spans decades. 
- . . . Her Sweet  Inspirations vocal group had hits of their own (“Sweet Inspiration,” 1968 on Atlantic  Records)and were well-known  session singers for Aretha Franklin, Wilson Pickett, Dusty Springfield, Elvis  Presley (in Las Vegas) and countless others on the soul and pop music  spectrums in the 60s and 70s. 
- . . . Dionne Warwick (white-haired now), Whitney Houston’s aunt,  acted as ‘host,’ introducing each speaker who either sang or talked about  her niece. She did a good job of keeping  things moving. 
- . . . She’s got a nice speaking voice, in a low register now, but  I was hoping she would sing.
- . . . Gospel singer BeBe  Winans did sing, was visibly overcome at times (as was actor/director Tyler Perry when he spoke) but told a  funny story of Whitney wanting him  and his sister CeCe to sing  background for her even though she had made the big time. 
- . . . BeBe made sure his sister stayed near him on the stage, seemingly  for support, and she did. 
- . . . Kim Burrell,  also a gospel singer and good friend of Houston,  was to sing “I Believe in You and Me” but changed her mind and sang instead  a personalized version of Sam Cooke’s “A  Change Is Gonna Come” (1964). 
- . . . “She was born in Newark . . . ,” Burrell began, replacing the standard famous line, “I was born by  the river (in a little tent) . . ."
- . . . The original song became an anthem for the Civil  Rights Movement and is often sung to illustrate the struggle against racism  and discrimination in America. 
- . . . Cooke himself  came up through gospel (the Soul  Stirrers), as Whitney did,  before going secular in his music.  
- . . . Actor Kevin Costner was  there and gave a fine tribute, which has been mentioned as one of the  highlights of the service. He starred  with Houston in the Bodyguard (1992)  movie. 
- . . . He talked about pushing the producers to have her star in  the film;her screen test, her  insecurities and her talent. 
- . . . He, like Whitney, was raised Baptist.  
- . . . Alicia Keys sang  “Send  Me an Angel” at the piano. It  was a little drawn out, to be honest, and when she wailed it often sounded like  she was screaming in a hoarse, not-musically sounding voice. 
- . . . I thought, “Too bad Teena  Marie’s not still alive and singing here today."She would have sung her song with much less  drama. 
- . . . Alicia and Whitney ‘texted’  a lot and Keys called her “Mee  Mah,” or something like that. 
- . . . Clive Davis was  up next. The record company executive is  considered the one who introduced Whitney to the world and signed herin 1983 to his label, Arista. 
- . . . “You wait a lifetime for a voice like that,” he said. 
- . . . He related his stories of Whitney through her music, mentioning by name some of the songs she  sang and the “vivid, visual memories of her videos."
- . . . He mentioned they recorded “her version” of “The  Greatest Love of All,” which indicated that the song had been done  before, which it had. 
- . . . Cabaret singer Jane  Olivor did it and then George Benson (1977)  had the first big hit with it when it was used for a  biopic about Muhammad Ali called “The  Greatest."
- . . . But obviously, Whitney had the biggest hit off it and made it hers. 
- . . . The song was co-written by frequent Houston collaborator Michael  Masser (“Saving All My Love for You,” “Didn’t We Almost Have It All,”  and Linda Creed (“Rubberband Man,” “You Make Me Feel Brand New”). 
- . . . Davis told Bobbi Kristina, Houston and former husband Bobby  Brown’s daughter, to “always be proud of your mother."
- . . . Speaking to Whitney, Clive offered a prediction:“I know you’re gonna raise the roof like no  one has ever done,” referring to what Houston would be doing when she gets to heaven. 
- . . . Aretha Franklin was  a no-show (for medical reasons): “She’s  not here but she is here,” said Dionne respectfully. 
- . . . I guess by that she meant that she was there in  spirit.
- . . . CLARIFICATION. Aretha  Franklin is NOT Whitney Houston’s godmother. She told the Today show’s Al Roker that earlier in the week. 
- . . . The Queen of Soul said she was like an “honorary  aunt” to Whitney. 
- . . . Singer Darlene Love (the one who sings “Christmas, Baby Please Come Home” on David Letterman every  year and is lead singer on the great Phil  Spector-produced “He’s  a Rebel” song from 1962) is Whitney’s true godmother.  
- . . . Houston’s real-life bodyguard, Ray Watson,  spoke with his remarks particularly moving and heartfelt. 
- . . . He told a funny  story about Houston wanting to drive  on a long trip instead of flying.  
- . . . When he learned she had died he said, “I lost a friend, a  boss, but her spirit came to me and said, ‘You are free. ’”“In those 11 years, I was by her  side,” he said, according to a CNN live blog. 
- . . . At the end of his talk he said, gesturing smoothly with  both hands toward the singer’s coffin and speaking to the congregation, “This  lady right here … she loved you."
- . . . Now it was Stevie  Wonder’s time to commemorate. 
- . . . He said Whitney liked his “Ribbon in the Sky” song (1982, from “Original Musiquarium,” on Tamla  Records) but he wasn’t sure if it (the lyrics) was quite right under  the circumstances (“a ribbon in the sky for our love”) so he put new words to  it. 
- . . . “You’ll always be our ribbon in the sky,” he sang. 
- . . . After Stevie was  done with that Warwick let out a “Woo,”  expressing her feelings about how great Stevie had done his thing. 
- . . . Then Wonder did  “Love’s  in Need of Love Today” (from ‘Songs in the Key of Life,’ 1976 on Tamla),  with the choir joining in. 
- . . . Patricia Houston, Whitney’s sister-in-law and  manager,traced the star’s career and  personal life, thanked people who helped her through the years and  mentioned Oprah Winfrey and Diane (Sawyer, I presume), who were both  in attendance. 
- . . . “The legacy that she left was music but what she left for  you was her love for God,” said Patricia. 
- . . . Of the performers, R&B singer/songwriter/producer R.  Kelly was last and sang “I  Look to You,” which he wrote and which is on Houston’s album of the same name (2009).  
- . . . “I look to you . . . And when melodies are gone . . . In  you I hear a song . . . I look to you . . ."
- . . . An inspirational song directed to God. 
- . . . Kelly visibly  struggled through it, raising his shaking right hand with emotion coming out in  his voice.  
- . . . At the end Warwick gave the mike to Houston’s former  music director, Rickey Minor. They go back 30 years. 
- . . . He’s currently bandleader on the ‘Tonight Show,” was the  same for ‘American Idol’ and has done numerous superstar tours, including  those for Christina Aguilera, Ray Charles, Beyonce, Alicia Keys and, of course, Houston. 
- . . . He recalled her anticipation and excitement about doing the National  Anthem at the Super Bowl in 1991 and said she had  ideas [about doing it] right away. “It  wasn’t gonna be what everyone thought,” said Minor of Whitney. 
- . . . She asked Minor,  “Rickey, did ever you see Marvin Gaye singing the national anthem  (1983 at NBA  All-Stars Game)? Did you see  that? I mean, he took his time and had a beat under there. So can we have a  beat?
- . . . Minor responded,  “You’re Whitney Houston. You can have anything you want." 
- . . . Minor thanked  all “the musicians and singers and dancers and actors and stage crew and staff”  on behalf of Houston. 
- . . . He ended by saying, “Because of you, Whitney, because you were there, I am here . . . because you were  there."
- . . . UH . . . So Emotional -- Whitney Houston, on Arista, from 1987. 
- . . . That’s what it all was. 
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